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Cedar Creek Makes Toledo Better

Ben SnyderBen Snyder’s first memory is of kneeling beside his bed to invite Jesus Christ to be his Lord and Savior. When other kids in school were collecting baseball cards, Ben was collecting autographs of missionaries in the back of his Bible. In the 7th Grade, he filled out a career card and said he wanted to be a pastor. “It just felt right to me,” he said. He led prayer groups and was mentored by a leader his church’s junior high ministry.

Then along the way, something happened. Ben got caught up in a spirit of self-righteousness and arrogance. And he turned his back on his religion. “In my last year of high school and into college, I became the opposite of a Christian,” he says.

Following the “Carpe Diem” path, his life became harder and harder to control. “I found myself empty and directionless,” he says. One night, armed with a fake ID, he went out drinking. “That’s when it hit me that I had to rely on external circumstances to have a good time,” he says. “Suddenly, I just wanted to be home with my parents. They had always been gracious in dealing with their son who was ‘a little off the reservation.” When he went to church with his parents, God spoke to him. “I finally recognized I was precious to Him not because of my efforts to win His approval, but because of Who He was.”

Fresh off the Carpe Diem Path, it was time to start looking for a church. But after three weeks at one church, no one had spoken to him. “Reality set in,” says Ben. “When I walked through the doors, I didn’t look ‘the part.’ No one ever reached out to welcome me and it irritated me because I’d seen enough people who could dress the part, but who didn’t have a heart for God.” Wearing earrings and spikey hair, Ben was on a search to reconnect with God, but in an environment that didn’t seem to know what to do with people like him.

Eventually, I wound up at Cedar Creek (near Toledo, Ohio),” says Ben. “That’s where I found a vibrant, passionate community that welcomed everyone—even spikey haired types like me who wore earrings!”

Fast forward a few years. Ben is now the campus pastor for Cedar Creek’s satellite site in South Toledo. But Cedar Creek’s philosophy in welcoming everyone hasn’t changed. If anything, it’s intensified. With a clearly defined mission to: “help spiritually restless and unchurched people love Jesus, serve others, and tell the world about Christ,” Cedar Creek is intentional about how they reach out to people.

Here’s how they do it.

  1. Cedar Creek runs commercials on secular radio to engage “unchurched” people. “One commercial invited people who’d lost connection to the church to come,” says Ben. “A local shock jock started ripping on it and talked about showing up to play basketball in our gym.” Lee Powell, the senior pastor, sent basketballs to the three on-air personalities and extended an invitation to come play basketball any time. They came. And they were floored by what they found at the church. “Before he [the shock jock] even understood what it meant to reach others for Christ, he became one of the biggest advocates for coming to church,” says Ben. “And a year or two later, he invited our band to the studio at the radio station right before Easter to play on air. That’s how a Christian band showed up to play a Third Day song (“I Am a Thief”) on a rock station in Toledo, Ohio.
  2. Cedar Creek was thrilled when they found an empty travel-sized wine bottle in the ladies’ room—two weeks in a row! “Do we want people getting drunk?” asks Ben. “No. We don’t know if they’re emptying out the contents of their purse from the night before or if they’re trapped in a battle with alcoholism, but what we do know is God’s Spirit can transform lives. Jesus was clear—He came for the sick, for those whose lives were a mess. He came for people like me who were getting fake IDs and going out to get drunk, then sitting in church and feeling far away from Him. Jesus says, ‘Trust Me. Let Me lead your life.’ And He says that to everyone, even people who dispose of empty wine bottles in a church’s restroom.”
  3. “We know 45-50 percent of people who attend Cedar Creek did not attend church regularly before they found us,” says Ben. “On the weekend the South Toledo campus opened, a guy came who had not been to church in 20 years. His marriage was about to end. He received an ad in the mail announcing the opening of the new campus and he came. He accepted Christ and now he and his wife serve as ushers and greeters in church. I just performed their wedding renewal service on their tenth anniversary. This couple got a new start because of Christ.”
  4. “Our team sees God potential in every person who walks through the door,” says Ben. Cedar Creek expresses that vision through how the services are built. “We share stories, and often what we hear is how scared and intimidated people were to walk through the doors.” What they found was an environment where people welcomed them, where music drew them in, and where they heard a message that God could change them.
  5. Cedar Creek has a “Change Life” wall that’s prominently displayed in the church. “We share stories (and pictures) of people who were far from God and by His grace have found their way back,” says Ben.
  6. “I make it my mission to be as accessible as possible,” says Ben. “I can’t be Superman, but I can be available to welcome people and get to know their names and learn about their families.” Cedar Creek has lobby hosts who are present in the lobby before and after services to discern people who might be confused or lost and to help answer questions or offer directions. A “Next Steps” team is available for anyone who makes a decision or has questions about church or about Christianity. “The team is made up of people with the gift of evangelism and/or shepherding and who are mature in their faith,” says Ben. “Someone on that team gets in touch with the person who has a question and listens to their story and helps them discern a next step.”
  7. “We encourage people in our congregation to eat out at local restaurants. We ask them to get to know the servers,” says Ben. “Tell them you go to Cedar Creek, and tip generously. In restaurant world, Christians are notorious for being ultra-demanding and being skimpy tippers. We want servers and those in the restaurant industry to get a different picture of a Christian.”
  8. Cedar Creek sends coasters with information about the church to bars for them to use.
  9. “We advertise,” says Ben. “Toledo is a small market and our ads tell people if they’re searching, we have a seat for you at Cedar Creek.”

Their strategy is working. Cedar Creek as a whole has grown to just under 9,000 in attendance each week and the South Toledo campus, which opened in December, 2011, has an average attendance of 1500.

“We want people to say, ‘Cedar Creek makes our city better,’” says Ben.

A Soccer Mom Changes the World

Kristen Chandler thought changing the world meant doing something big. “I didn’t see how one person could possibly do anything to help the millions of hurting people in the world,” she says.

When she attended The Global Leadership Summit in 2008, she was challenged by the words Lead Where You Are. “Where I was most of the time was with my kids at the soccer field,” she says. And youth soccer didn’t exactly line up with her idea of ministry, but Kristen was open to God’s direction.

If You’re Not Failing, You’ve Stopped Dreaming
At the Summit, Craig Groeschel (LifeChurch.tv) said: “If you’re not failing, you’ve stopped dreaming. And if you’re not dreaming, you’ve stopped living.”

“When I heard that,” says Kristen, “it gave me permission to try something…even if it failed.”

Kick for Hope Is Born

She got the idea to hold a soccer tournament to raise money for something life changing. Researching various charities, she found some that didn’t just throw money into a pot, but gave people something tangible so they knew what they were giving their money to. And Kick for Hope was born.

The first year 89 teams with kids between the ages of 8 and 18 participated. The next year, there were 124, and last year there were 134 and more than two thousand children. “We’ve raised $84,000,”says Kristen. That might not sound like a lot, but it has meant a well in Africa that provides clean water, mosquito netting that protects against malaria, aid for Sudanese refugees, and more.

“We got a picture of our well in the mail and it had our name on it,” says Kristen. And she’s been to Africa to see how the money is used and how it has impacted people’s lives. “I’ve met people whose lives have been changed because of Kick for Hope.”

Along the way, Kristen has gained leadership skills and life tools. “Youth soccer is the fastest growing sport, so the potential is huge,” she says. “There are kids all over the world playing soccer—sometimes without shoes or even a ball. Even though their lives are different, kids around the globe are connected through this beautiful game.”

Who knew a soccer mom could change the world?


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Celebrating the heart of the Church

2012 Easter Volunteer CentralLook at an org chart and you’ll probably see boxes with solid lines and dotted lines leading from the CEO or president downward through executives, directors, middle managers and on to the rank and file. At Willow Creek Community Church, there’s a different kind of org chart because at the core is a group of people who would prefer not to be seen or heard by the masses. It’s the volunteers whose main desire is to serve.

“The entire church hinges on its volunteers,” says Shane Farmer, director of discipleship. “Without them, people do not get served, do not get touched, and do not get changed. We can never underestimate the significance of their donated time, talent, and love.”

Between services on Easter weekend, Willow set aside time to honor approximately 2,000 people (including children serving alongside their families) who gave their all to serving the 40,000 people who attended Easter services at the South Barrington campus.

With food catered in for volunteers throughout the day on Saturday and until midday on Sunday, volunteers were given an opportunity to enjoy time together, share stories, and build relationships. “We brought in an artist to draw caricatures and amidst the laughter, volunteers experienced a great time of community and prayer,” says Praveen Kommu, operations coordinator for the volunteer event. “Each volunteer received a personal, hand-written note expressing how important they are to us and how much volunteerism means to our church.”

Offering a meal and a simple note of thanks might not seem like a huge gesture. But volunteers will be rewarded. “Jesus says that not one cup of cold water given in His name will fail to be rewarded on the last day,” says Farmer.

We asked leaders around Willow Creek Community Church what they do to celebrate their teams. Here’s what we learned:

Bill Hybels, Senior Pastor
Dallas Willard writes “Celebration heartily done makes our deprivations and sorrows seem small, and we find in it great strength to do the will of our God because His goodness to us becomes so real to us.” (from Celebration of the Disciplines p 181)

I have celebrated with my teams by taking them to sporting events, arranging boating adventures with them, arranging for them to meet and interview wisdom figures, and simply taking them to fun eateries where we can enjoy delicious food and drink together. The pay off is always greater than I imagine it will be!

Heather Larson, Director of Compassion & Justice
I love to celebrate wins by gathering the team together for a special meal. We sit around in a relaxed atmosphere, telling stories, reliving the highs and lows, and celebrating each individual. There is nothing like slowing down to truly soak in the wonder of all that God did.

Jake Smith Jr., Director of AXIS
We usually will go get a meal together & share stories from the wins we have. This keeps us focused on the individual lives being impacted verses celebrating bottom lines. Nothing creates more drive for teams than understanding why their individual effort matters for people.

Bryan Jones, Director of Student Impact
We celebrate these wins by sending a note, scheduling a quick one-on-one meeting to acknowledge them, or giving them appropriate public praise. It is important for people to know that when they show up each day,their work and contributions matter. When people understand that, they are motivated and energized to take on new goals and challenges.

We want to hear from you! Leave a comment to share how you celebrate your volunteers.

Thoughts from Craig Groeschel

Groeschel, Soul DetoxCraig Groeschel is Senior Pastor at LifeChurch.tv, a multi-campus church known for innovation and creative technology. He’s also the author of several books. You can follow him on Twitter and enjoy this preview of Soul Detox, Craig’s newest title releasing next week.


Soul Detox

I was raised in a house filled with smoke. Both my parents smoked, and I was never bothered by the smell. I found it strangely comforting because it was what made home smell like home. While the health risks of smoking were well known, it was a few years before the American Medical Association came out with its findings on the dangers of secondhand smoke, especially for children. No one’s parents were trying to poison their family and cause health problems. Nonetheless, they unknowingly put all the people they loved—including themselves—at risk.

It seems funny to me now in a sad, ironic kind of way. Parents lovingly warned their children: “Look both ways before you cross the street.” “Put on your coat so you don’t catch a cold.” “Wash your hands so you don’t get sick.” “Don’t get in the water until thirty minutes after you’ve eaten.” (I still don’t get that one.) Though they did everything within their power to keep us safe, many parents were unknowingly poisoning their kids with secondhand smoke.

For the first eighteen years of my life, I lived in a cloud of secondhand smoke. I didn’t blame my parents; they didn’t know secondhand smoke is practically as dangerous as inhaling it firsthand. But their ignorance didn’t change the reality of the situation.
I’m convinced many of us are living in this same kind of dangerous trap with our spiritual health. We know something doesn’t feel quite right, that we’re not growing closer to God and following Christ the way we would like, but we can’t put our finger on it. Even though we believe in God and want to please Him, we find it hard to serve him passionately and consistently. We want to move forward spiritually but we feel like we’re running against the wind. We want more—we know there’s more—but we just can’t seem to find it.

Why do so many well-meaning Christians take one spiritual step forward, then slide back two? Why do we long for more of God in our lives and yet feel farther and farther away from him? What’s holding us back from growing in this relationship that we claim is our main priority?

While many factors go into answering these questions, ultimately I believe our spiritual enemy blinds us with a smoke screen of poisonous distractions. Just like I lived unaware of the smoke in my home, many people aren’t fully aware of the forces stunting their spiritual growth. Without realizing the impact of their faith, people embrace harmful relationships, consume toxic media, live with addictive habits, and remain oblivious to the long-term effects. We think the way we live is perfectly fine, normal, harmless, or even positive. Some people don’t want to take an honest look at the way they live, claiming, “What you don’t know won’t hurt you.”

Unfortunately, this just isn’t true. Many who inhaled secondhand smoke—not to mention all the millions of smokers—have suffered permanent and painful physical effects. The truth is this. What many people don’t know is not just hurting them but killing them spiritually.

Everything we allow into our minds, hearts, and lives—everything we spend our time and money on—has an impact on how we grow, or don’t grow, spiritually. As the old computer adage reminds us: garbage in, garbage out. Just as we are what we eat physically, we are also what we consume spiritually. If we don’t monitor and adjust our diet accordingly, our souls are in danger of absorbing more and more lethal poison.

The Bible consistently reminds us to check our spiritual diet for toxins. Proverbs 25:26 says, “Like a muddied spring or a polluted well are the righteous who give way to the wicked.” How muddy is your water right now? Is your well polluted by all the cultural toxins seeping in? Or does your spiritual well draw on Living Water as its pure, thirst-quenching source? Maybe you’re a Christian—you’ve been made righteous by Christ—yet you’ve become a muddied spring or a polluted well, and you don’t even know it.

You might believe, “My thoughts don’t matter. As long as they stay tucked away inside my head, they’re not hurting anyone. We all think about things that we’d never do, right?” All the while your negative thoughts are silently poisoning your soul, pouring lies into your spiritual water supply. Unfortunately, our thoughts don’t just stay in our head, disconnected from our words and our actions. Unhealthy thoughts often lead to unhealthy words. Without even knowing it, you might be talking yourself, and others, out of God’s best.

If you’re tired of the stain of sinful habits discoloring your life, if you long to breathe the fresh, clean, life-giving air of God’s holiness, if you would love to detoxify your soul from guilt, fear, regret, and all the impurities that pollute your relationship with God, it’s time to come clean.

Examine the various pollutants that often corrupt your spiritual desire to know and serve God. Some can be avoided as you become more discerning and remove them from your surroundings. Deep down, you know there’s truer way to live, a deeper, purer way to love, and a larger impact to make on the world around you. Open your eyes, your heart, and your mind to the cleansing power of God’s truth.

His Word is filled with stories of men and women who needed to come clean, who longed for more. One of my favorites is David, who’s described as “a man after God’s own heart” but, as you may know, was far from perfect. Shortly after he committed adultery and murder, David experienced a soul sickness that affected him on every level—physical, emotional, and spiritual. He knew his sins of lust, entitlement, and deception were killing his heart. He knew the only way to be restored and experience a joyful, fulfilling life again was to come clean before God. In his prayer of repentance, he wrote:

Wash away all my iniquity
and cleanse me from my sin.

Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean;
wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.

Create in me a pure heart, O God,
and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

Restore to me the joy of your salvation
and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.

–Psalm 51: 2,7,10,12

Wouldn’t you like to come clean? To feel your Father’s love wash over you like the cool, crystal waters of a spring-fed stream? To leave the smoke-filled room where you’ve been hiding and come into his life-giving light? To breathe in fresh spiritual air?

It’s not too late.

Adapted from Soul Detox by Craig Groeschel, founding and senior pastor of Lifechurch.tv. Soul Detox, published by Zondervan, releases May 1, 2012.
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Bizzy’s Burden

Bizzy and ElisabethThis story originally appeared in the Winter 2012 edition of Compassion Magazine and we’re glad to be able to share it with you on our blog. To learn more about the life-changing work of Compassion International, please visit their website.


She vividly remembers the red socks.

When Elisabeth “Bizzy” Mellado was in Guatemala meeting Elisabeth, the girl she sponsors, she casually remarked to her sponsored child’s younger sister: “Your socks are cute.”

“My child must have heard me, and borrowed the socks from her sister,” says Bizzy. For the rest of the trip, every time Bizzy saw her sponsored child, she was wearing those red socks. The little girl wore them to the Compassion center, to lunch, to church. For Bizzy, those socks became an uncomfortable reminder.

“I just kept seeing her, wearing those socks, and knowing she wore them because of what I said,” Bizzy recalls. “They reminded me that she looks up to me, that she wants to be like me. And all I could think was, ‘You don’t want to be like me. I’m spoiled and I’m lazy. I should be the one looking up to you. You’re the one doing chores and taking care of your family. I should be more like you.’”

Just One of Dad’s Crazy Ideas

Jim and BizzyBizzy’s first encounters with Compassion started with what she calls one of her dad’s “crazy ideas.” Her father, Jim Mellado, president of the Willow Creek Association, had an unusual childhood. He lived in seven different countries, often surrounded by poverty. His father was an engineer who worked in communities with little infrastructure, helping to build roads and other construction projects.

“I grew up with a global perspective…we would walk as a family in the central plazas where we lived, and I saw people begging, men with no limbs, families sleeping on the ground,” Jim says. “But my children are growing up in a very different way. So we’ve worked really hard to help our kids understand that their world, their situation, is not ‘normal.’ Most of the world doesn’t live the way we do.”

As Bizzy and her siblings grew up, they went on mission trips and visited family members in other countries. Still, Jim was afraid his children were missing a key experience – a relationship with someone in poverty.

A Real Person on the Other End

Through his work at Willow Creek, Jim had learned of Compassion’s one-to-one sponsorship approach. He believed that this could be what his children needed to build a relationship with a child living in poverty.

So one night Jim sat his three children down at the computer to find a sponsored child, and after they narrowed their search to Guatemala, 14-year-old Bizzy and her siblings each looked for a child who shared their first name.

“At first, I really didn’t think a lot of it,” says Bizzy. “My parents took care of the actual sponsorship of Elisabeth, and I just wrote the letters. But when I started getting letters back from her, I began to realize that there was a real person on the other end.”

In August of 2010, that “person on the other end” became even more real to Bizzy and her family when they traveled to Guatemala to meet their sponsored children. Bizzy recalls that when they visited Elisabeth’s home, they were shocked by what they found. Elisabeth’s father had recently had an accident and was bedridden Nine-year-old Elisabeth had to care for her younger siblings and take on more responsibilities in the home.

“It was shocking,” Bizzy admits, “but I was refueled to be a better sponsor.”

Days after returning from Guatemala, Bizzy began her freshman year at the U.S. Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, Colo. Her schedule was grueling, but a letter she received from Elisabeth a few months later helped put her challenges into perspective. In the letter Elisabeth revealed that her mother had died suddenly. Overnight Elisabeth was thrust into the role of caretaker, both for her younger siblings and for her ailing father.

“All of a sudden, the stress of the academy didn’t seem as bad,” Bizzy remembers. “It’s hard, but the reality is, I get three meals a day and an education. That’s not the case for Elisabeth.”

Not Mine Anyway

During Bizzy’s sophomore year, she took over financial responsibility for sponsoring Elisabeth.

“All I could think was, with all she has to do, the least I can do is support her with $38 a month.” So instead of buying new shoes and going shopping, Bizzy sends money each month to a little girl in Guatemala who has lost so much.

“It’s not mine anyway,” says Bizzy. “Wealth is a blessing. I was born into wealth, but I know it’s not a right.”

Bizzy is also determined to encourage young Elisabeth as she works to balance school and her adult home responsibilities. Bizzy says she tries to demonstrate to Elisabeth that there is more to her world than the struggles of her daily life.

“I want her to be secure enough in herself to think beyond herself.”

So in those letters, Bizzy strings together phrase after phrase of hope – words that will transcend loss and brokenness.

“You can do this.”

“I care about you.”

“I think about you.”

“I love you.”

How are you living out Christ’s call to compassion in this world? There are several ways you can get involved:

Pray for those living in poverty and how you might help
Give by sponsoring a child through Compassion today
Share your story and help Compassion change the story for children living in poverty around the world

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